Oral Positions

Analingus, Tossed Salad and Anal Oral Sex Guide

Analingus the pleasure of orally satisfying your sex partners anus (Tossed Salad). Ewww some might say 'Anal Oral Sex, but when the anus is clean; there are no smells like what your mind would think and for some the natural smells of the anus when cleaned are such a turn on.

Licking and sucking of your anus or someone’s anus is something curious for some, some slip onto the excitement of analingus during cunnilingus, as the distance between the vagina and the anus is not so far. One very aroused slippery pussy or slippery balls will have the tongue slipping into the anus

The rest of sex lovers tend to want to find more freaky sex pleasures and then are drawn to the mental pleasure of having their anus licked or liking someone’s anus - also described as tossing someone’s salad.

Thought of "Tossing someone’s salad" "Licking someone’s ass"

Nothing wrong with the thought of or actually doing analingus or rimming as once called or still is by some. Tossing someone’s salad, is something you many of you can’t condemn unless you wouldn’t even toss the salad of the celebrity your most attracted to. If you have a ass fetish and your sex partners ass is looking so irresistible and plump and you kiss his or her ass cheeks and her skin smells fresh and you pull apart their cheeks and still u get no irritating smell - its most likely in your mind then and there that u may think of licking their anus or you’ve skipped that and your already lapping away shyly or vigorously at their anus.

The sensation of Analingus.

The Anus is an erogenous zone for everybody - but only the ones that choose to have it orally massage. The anus is high in nerves as too is the tongue and mouth of someone tossing a salad. Once this is put together (analingus) the eroticism is very powerful

The pelvic floor muscles that are located in the surface of the anus area. These muscles contract when an orgasm is achieved. So pleasuring this area with a finger, tongue, sex toy turns on the sensations of analingus

Mentally in both men and women there is another sly turn on that is issued when receiving analingus and for many men that would never have their anus penetrated but love their salad tossed are more prone to this side of the turn on of receiving analingus

The fact that mentally and growing up as a kid you ensue the anus to be such a dirty thing and place, once cleaned the anus is safe to be orally pleasured but mentally you hold the thought that a partner is licking your anus is a big turn on as it’s like a naughty thing in their mind.

The moment of raising the issue of receiving or giving Analingus to a partner.

As I have just described mentally how we all as kids are brought up to think of the anus, depending on how open your partner is or their bringing up - this may be a very difficult time or even embarrassing time to even bring up this oral practice that you would like to know where your partner stands on this oral practice.

You’re going to have to raise the issue in the way that best suits the level of bond you have with your partner, you may need to even work on it for a long period of time if your sex life is not that exotic.

You may not want to just bring it out, you may be able to bring it out as your partner and you have a very open and frank relationship as to around sex. If this is still a problem - you could direct your partner to allsexinfo.com and suggest that you have seen some new positions that you would like to try and if she would care to log on in her own time to see if there were any she would like to try; then maybe when you both sit down together on the site you could continue browsing the whole site and read about analingus and see how she or he takes to reading it and then it would be a great time to raise it.

Bear in mind - if you raise it then straight away in a suggestive way depending on how your partner would take to it - then it would probably be the most foreseeable time to do it . If you leave it too long and then say raise it when your put somewhere - then straight away your partner will know that it’s something you definitely want to do - so depending on how you feel your partner would react - choose how you will disclose the suggestion or question to them and then go from their - or I’m sure alot of you will have your own cunning plan (I say this as it is really bad :) )

Whatever the reaction is do not pressure your partner - like if he or she says yes - don’t go into a frenzy and run off the top of the tongue

"Ok that’s great, I have the bath running already, theirs sum 'Radox' with the little bits in the soap by the side, there’s some wipes and ill meet you in the bedroom at 10pm"

Not the way to go into it - meet their advances on how they feel about it - whether they want to receive only or do both. Just be exactly clear on who does what, how...etc

Thought of Analingus acceptance, advancing, rejection and assurance

Partner does not want to toss my salad

If this is the road that you have come to it is really not over. There is still one way to go about performing or receiving analingus with/from your partner.

If your sex life is so powerful that she or he can’t resist you and you have them in a state of mind were naturally sex has them weak and they are positioned in a way that you are able to toss their salad - then go for it - but remember - your partner my really enjoy it or act like they didn’t know what you were doing or feel very insecure about you performing this on you as they hold immature emotions about their partner performing this on them - so it’s your choice.

Advancing after partner says yes to analingus.

It is not actually over yet, remember things could go through your partners mind that could change their angle on wither or not they want to carry on with this.

So I suggest that - u assure that the three C's with analingus are checked

• Cleanliness with analingus
• Communication with analingus
• Contraception with analingus
  
  

I don’t mean literaturally these are checked - you need to make this whole process smooth, even if you have never tried this before - as you have brought this up its better that you have this all in control and then that way it’s easier on your sex partner

CLEANLINESS: First you need to take in shaving of your bum area - for alot of partners they do not want a hairy or semi prickly bum to lick and pleasure. Even if they say they don’t mind unless they persist that there more aroused with a hairy anus - shave it with clippers! (clippers as its less likely to give you bumps from in growing hairs as a razor would) You may want to go over excessively until you are completely smooth and make sure to clean your bum area completely before shaving and cover the clipper with a type of alcohol and then let dry before beginning to make sure the clippers are cleansed as well.

Then take a bath together and make it a very sensual bath that is very soapy that way its erotic with you both being in the bath and it will not be on your minds as much, but don’t worry if it’s come to that time it’s still going to be sitting there on your partners mind. So proceed to wash each other and then once finished make sure you dry yourselves down with clean dry towels. Nothing worse than having a through bath,  drying yourselves down with a used towel; then being so positive that your body is clean - whilst we both know that its completely not.lol. Not a funny matter.

COMMUNICATE: during your bath or prior to where you both stand on receiving and giving and then don’t pry if your partners stance is not what you wanted either way if he or she only wants to receive you can make it exceptional for them to the point they will want to make you feel what you just did to them. And then if they still do not want to return the favour - tease them but do not give them that new pleasure that you gave them. Or it could be more then what you think it is so again communicate and get to the bottom of it - cover these areas

• Privacy - assure what happens stays private
• Mindset - find were there mind is that’s blocking them from wanting to toss your salad
• Smoothness - Maybe you have not shaved well in that area and you have a hairy bum which your partner really does not like.
  

CONTRACEPTION: in the sense of a dental dam. If you still wont more sense of security form any STD'S or your partner will only pleasure you with the use of contraception then you will have to use the aid of a dental dam which will go over your anus and your partner will lick that which will be placed right on your anus and you will enjoy the sensation.

Maybe this will assure your partner untill you go and get a test done to have proof that you dont have any kind of STD if that is what is on his or her mind.

Analingus Tips and Techniques
Rimming, Analingus, tossing salad position techniques and tips.

Below are common positions for analingus;

• On all fours. The receiver gets into Doggystyle position and the giver kneels or squats behind them spreading the receivers bum cheeks to expose the anus with or without the help of the receiver.

• Bent over standing. The receiver standing bends over just enough for the giver to be able to see their anus. Suggest the receiver bent over in front of a wall or something that can aid them bending over.

• Knees tight to chest on your back. The receiver lays on their back raises their knees to their chest holding them tightly in or holding on each knee wide open and rocking back and keeping their ass up high in the air – they can use a pillow to rest under their lower back. The giver squats or kneels and rests their hands on their partner’s thighs to keep them from rocking and their ass up in the air.

• Lay on your side. The receiver lay on their side with their knees up to their chest or they can leave the thigh that is not on the ground higher to their chest than the one that is on the ground – which gives their partner access to their anus. Giver then can squat; lay on their side or on their chest to pleasure the receiver.

• Lay on your front. The receiver lies on their chest with their legs partly open and the giver then comes and lies on their chest with their face in the receiver’s anus or they can squat.

Guide to anal oral sex positions complete you’re now going to need your tips and techniques to satisfy your partner or how to be satisfied the best way.

• Make sure your partner has told you whether or not they mind you touching there anus with your fingers or if they only want your hands on their ass cheeks and nowhere near their anus.
• Slowly proceed to lightly lick around the anus were there are loads of straight wrinkles leading to the anus whole. Keep on licking around their and then gradually pick up a speed but imagine licking an ice lolly that is not melting and your enjoying it. So slow licks.

 

• You may want to change from licking and lapping, licking may be a sensation that is very direct but to lap covers more surface area and I’m sure your partner will be yearning for more or will be really TURNED ON!
• When the anus is very wet from you lapping and licking on it. Start to pout your lips and move them around the anus and u can rub your whole face in it if that is called for if you really want to go beyond on pleasuring them

 

• Caress the clitoris and finger the woman’s vagina whilst sucking and lapping on the anus.
• Sometimes move away from the anus by kissing their ass cheeks and biting it lightly to build up the suspense of them not knowing when you’re going to place your tongue back on their anus, if you can slyly get your tongue back on their anus to their surprise and you’ll hear them moan

 

• Pay attention to the positions that the receiver is in and in some you will be able to rock them into your face and tongue which will really turn them on and will be very different physical and mental sensation
• You may want to talk dirty in between orally pleasuring your partners anus – again u may want to test this is your certain you actually know how to talk dirty to your partner as not to spoil it.